13 Simple Steps to Pick Up Women Effectively

Where to pick up beautiful women

You can pick up women anywhere you can find human beings dwelling and being, The best places to find women is on Night clubs, nightlife is societies meeting rituals, besides clubs, this is a little list of places you can find people:

The best place and where you will find the most people however will always be in nightclubs, getting good with women is an art, like playing guitar it takes a long time, and you just have to make sure to always show up to the field and practice.

Plan for picking up women

Before approaching have in mind Opener, A story that depicts Value; you have other women, friends, being a leader, being a supporter of your loved one, or an element of all these attributes. Conversational topics ready, A tiny list of attributes the women you want to have has, and a list of screening questions that don’t break social norms,

Such as “What’s your body count”, It’s okay if you care about such things especially if you’re searching for a life partner however, you want to be more discrete about this sort of thing, subtle, and wait until the right time to ask these questions.

Going out to pick up women

Decide where you plan to go and practice approaching women. This can be anywhere, Go back to the list of places and choose one, of course, some places and better than others.

If this is your first time, I would suggest heading to any supermarket close to your home, the women there aren’t typically very beautiful in supermarkets however, it can help kick-start your journey.

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Approaching women

Now that you have your opener and some material planned out, make sure you know your opener.

As soon as you enter the place, the community we call the field, as soon as you enter the field, try making small talk with anybody, even the staff, it’s okay.

Caveat: Try to not talk to the staff too much, it’s okay to make them your friends but be aware that not everybody is a fund of Pick Up Arts, Some Individuals will do everything in their power to sabotage your efforts, I’ve heard of stories of people being banned from venues because of lies that people tell the managers and so forth. Be Careful Who You Trust.

You Must Initiate the conversation in 3 seconds or less, This is what we call in our community The 3 Second Rule.

When you approach in 3 seconds or less, your brain doesn’t have enough time to ignite Anxiety, which means, approaching in 3 seconds or less gets you in the door.

Approach Anxiety

Something you will really notice when you get started, specially if this is your first time and approaching women is that you will feel tremendous levels of Anxiety,

Your brain will tell you things like:

• Don’t approach yet
• She’s not hot enough for me
• This opener sucks
• What am I doing here
• What if she doesn’t like me?
• What if she rejects me?
• What if that guy is her boyfriend and he hurts me?
• And so on…

The Important thing to realize is that,

“This are all lies”

Your brain is trying to protect you from some potential outcome that was common in the cavemen era,

Today we have police and many sources of security, in other words, it’s very unlikely for something like this to truly happen in this modern era.

Your brain is still very old, so It still has these instincts protecting you, it’s important to realize that, that is all it is, an instant.

Open Women, without thinking

Now that you are in front of someone run your opener, without thinking.

In the beginning, your brain is your enemy, it will do anything to protect you, however, a mentioned before, the chances of something extreme happening are extremely low, almost nonexistent

Focus on visualizing what you want and let the love for the things you desire guide you instead, it is said that all the greatest worries derive their power from the strongest, greatest, and deepest source, their love.

Love women, love to pick up, Love people

Incorporate images in your mind that guide support your greatest aspirations, In other words, focus on what you want instead of what you don’t want, and you’ll have it.

Jump into another topic

As soon as you are successful in running your opener, jump on to another topic immediately, any of the topics you’ve organized on that piece of paper.

You can use a transitional phrase to ease the way in wishing you jump onto another conversational topic,

Let’s say you like cooking, You can use small phrases to smoothen out your transition onto another topic, some examples of the phrases you can use are;

Transitional Phrases

• “You know, I really love cooking…”
• “By the way, there is nothing better then a well cooked meal…”
• “I just thought about something, I need to buy a small frying pan, I need to…”

One more thing, try to speak slowly and clearly, but mostly slowly, so people can understand you, this also creates effective communication.

Introduce light touching

As you are communicating with people, try your hardest to induce some light touches,

Don’t be weird about them, just some light, small, social touches,

It’s important to have, an “It’s no big deal” attitude about it also. Light touches are the way you can start to build physical comfort with women, enough comfort to eventually kiss them.

Touching me also shows confidence, the alpha male is always touching all the small betas he has to protect and take care of.

Multiple thread your conversation

As soon as you have integrated your first topic successfully, now use another transitional phrase and introduce another topic into the fun conversation.

We call this technique in our community multiple threading, the act of talking about multiple topics at the same time.

Like most things in life that are good, it takes practice and time in the fields to accumulate enough skill to be able to effortlessly multiple-thread conversations.

Example:

Let’s say your second interest is the gym, you can use a TP like, “Uh, I have to hit the gym, Something would never believe happened…” and after talking for a bit about that, you can go back to the cooking topic, by the way, “I discovered food that has virtually zero calories…”

Later, following this same format, you can introduce the rest of the conversational topics one after the other.

Demonstrate your value to women

Now after you are in the door, it’s time to demonstrate some value,

What creates value for women?

Any quality, attribute, talent, knowledge, alignment, or possession that could increase somebody else chances of surviving and or replicating on this planet. In other words, anything that you have that can help other people.

Different people are more attracted to different things, for example, women will be more interested in your ability to seduce other women because this proves that

Attraction Triggers For Women

Some of the best attraction triggers you can include in your conversation are

Anything that can support the survival and replication of your potential alignments will trigger attraction in fellow human beings however the 3 most important triggers you should focus on are

Attraction Stories

Now that we have some basic information on what attraction triggers are, let’s include them in our stories.

If you are navies, only focus on talking about other women you your stories, you don’t have to say they are your girlfriends it’s better if you don’t say that at all, by themselves, they’ll assume it, you only job is to talk about women, drop it into your story

I am personally not an advocate of lies however, there are many ways of flip switches without saying that they are your girlfriends, and when she asks, “Who is your girlfriend?” you can say, “Sorry I don’t kiss and tell” or, “Sorry, I don’t know you that well yet” and continue with the conversation like thing happened.

Women should be incidental details such as;
“My friend and were arranging, She believes in the Chupacabra, that is so funny! blah blah blah…”

Read her, Does she like you?

Assuming you are speaking with a female, After you’ve spent some time speaking with her, it’s time to read where her level of attraction is at!

Indications Of Interest

• Is she touching you?
• Is she standing close to you?
• Is she facing you?
• Is she playing attention to you?
• Is she laughing at your jokes?
• Is she touching her hair?
• Is she scratching her face, noise, ands or arms (Primal Indication)

Virtually anything that indicates that she is magnetized to you/ attracted indicates interest from her.

Once you have determined she’s attracted to you, it’s time to test her.

How to test a women, to see if they like you

After you’ve noted that she is attracted to you, it’s time to slowly increase her compliance.

Give her small test such as

• Does my hair look this?
• Fist palm her, see if she reciprocates
• Can you scratch my shoulder
• What was your name (Be careful to ask too many personal questions, they indicate interest from you. You want her wandering if you like her or not)
• Put your hand on her shoulder, see if she accepts your touch

Start with the smallest test like “Does my hair look okay,” and end it one like Putting your hand on her shoulder.

Notice her compliance

Pay attention to her responses to your test,

If she passes, give a smile or more attention, This is your indication of interest. If she fails, Look away from her or drop the conversation, This is you indicating disinterest.

If you are a little more advanced something else you can do if she passes is, Give her an indication of Interest, Then an indication of disinterest, Then act normal. In our community we call this the bite, hook, real, release, it’s essentially,

Test + Reward (_If she passes_) + Disinterest + Back to normal, The hook part is when she compliance

If she fails

Test + Disinterest + Back to normal

• Make sure she is compliant with you

How to number close a women?

Now, when you’ve determined that she has enough attraction and compliance toward you, It’s time to number close.

Say something along the lines of,

“You know enjoyed speaking with me, how about you?” When she agrees ask, “What would be a great way to stay connected?” let her think it’s her idea.

Now if she says Instagram, and you don’t want Instagram, tell her I prefer not to communicate via Instagram, might you have any other great ideas?

When she finally says, “I can give you my number” say, “Great smart girl” (‘Smart girl’ sets the frame that you’re the prize)

The principle to remember is that you want to make her think it’s her idea, and gently lead the interaction from behind, like a true leader.

Conclusion

You will not be able to pick up girls right always especially if you’re a complete navy however, just as any skill possible to men, the more you practice this, the better you’ll get it at.

Getting woman is just like Learning to play guitar, the most difficult part is in the beginning however, if you stay consistent and muscle through the initial resistance imposed upon you by life, at the end of the tonal, one of the greatest rewards life could possible give you lie there, waiting just for you.

If you wish to learn more about the things that keep women around after you get her, check out the article named Understand How To Get A Girlfriend Before You Regret.