#1 Change Your Beliefs
You Can Do It, You Can Pick Up Women
Many times people never even get started because they don’t believe they can pick up women or even do anything right for that matter, this reality is really sad and most people live in it.
To improve your women skills you have to start at the root of the problem first and change your beliefs, beliefs are a choice.
You need to realize two factors,
- Beliefs are a decision.
- You can achieve anything, to which you put your mind.
You decide what you want to believe, and what you think you can and can’t do, You are the creator and architect of your life.
So decide today to believe you can do this, and have everything you’ve ever dreamed of.
It’s Not Wrong To Pick Up Women
It’s not wrong to want women, It’s not wrong to love women, It’s not wrong to have multiple girls,
Society has preempted and conditioned humans in a way for us to not replicate and survive effectively. Things like junk food, pornography, drugs, and so forth, things that slowly kill the population are the things that are massively propagated throughout society, and if you’re not careful, you’ll fall victim to their tactics, to control the human population.
Think about things, don’t be foolish, and blind believe everything that’s being told to you.
Men are hardwired and designed to want, and be able to handle multiple women. There is absolutely nothing wrong with talking to women.
What If She’s Married Or Has A Boyfriend?
When it comes to women, Some women are loyal and wish to remain loyal, however, this is only around 2% of women.
All women are hardwired to want to procreate with the best genetic makeup for the current human environment that exists, in other words, women want the best men.
Are hardwired to only offer loyalty to the best, this means that even the 2% of loyal women, try their hardest to fight their instincts, almost like a vampire trying not to suck your blood.
What this also means is that most women are Cheaters, and are already open and willing to be with other men as long as their men don’t find out.
If you meet a women that has a boyfriend but is banging other guys, you would be a sucker to not partake and to grab your piece of the pie. Don’t feel sorry for those men who choose the path of least resistance.
Those who choose not to work on themselves, who choose not to work on their game, made a decision not to grow, and now they’re forever confined to women who will never be loyal to them.
You work on yourself, grow yourself, and find a woman who will be loyal to you, if that’s what you desire.
It’s Safe, To Pick Up Women
As long as you’re not sexually assaulting women, are delivery being insulting and physically hurting people, You will just find.
It’s not illegal to talk to people, be mindful of their feelings and comfort levels, people reserve the right to not talk to you if they wish. If a woman blows you off and for whatever reason doesn’t wish to speak with you, respect her wishes and leave.
Be humble, and don’t take it personally if somebody doesn’t want to speak with you.
When it comes to women’s initial attraction level toward you, there are 3 levels:
- #1 – Cold Girls | Little to no initial attraction.
- #2 – Warm Girls || A mild initial level of attraction.
- #3 – Hot Girls | A high initial level of attraction.
Especially when you’re a beginner, You must focus and concentrate on Hot Girls. They’ll give access to sex more easily and are easier to get in general because there is already a high level of natural biological chemistry.
What If The Boyfriend Is There?
Don’t hit on women
When you are talking to a woman, don’t hit on her. Talk to her naturally, If you want more information on picking up women CLICK HERE.
Don’t hit on her, speak to her naturally, Demonstrate your value, and pay attention to her interest levels. When she’s ready invite her to do something nice, number close, maybe create a bit of extra comfort with her, and move on with your life.
If the boyfriend appears out of nowhere, You weren’t hitting on the woman. Talk to him naturally, the same way.
If he’s insecure and jealous, the worst thing you can do is become reactive. The moment you jump into his terrain you are in danger so don’t. No matter how pissed you are inside, just walk away and keep walking.
A combination of a Non-reactive and Enthusiastic vibe is the perfect attitude for optimum game.
Women Like You, Women Want Sex
Often time men think that women must not like them because they are ugly.
The truth is that women do like men, women are attracted to the men’s replication value. These are the qualities that make men more likely to survive and even thrive in this world.
When can have 100 men together, and if the ugliest, fattest, most disgusting man has a Lamborghini and a mansion, his pull will be 1000x greater than that of the hottest guy in the room.
The mere fact that a man can acquire such riches, indicates that he has some sort of inner strength, and it’s that inner strength that women are attracted to.
Women Fall In Love Through Their Ears
Have you ever heard the saying that women fall through their ears while men fall through their eyes?
This say is mostly true, the only correction I can make is that women fall for who you are, and your DNA structure has an effect on who you are.
Remember, women’s biological goal is to replicate the most dominant, and most likely to survive DNA.
What does this mean for you?
- Work on your wealth | Become rich
- Work on your health/ Body | Get in great shape
- Work on your love | Practice and improve your game
By putting the delivery focus on the areas of your life, you maximize your survival and replication value, which means that you become, ultimately sexy.
The most important area a man can work is his wealth, so get going.
I Am Social, Even If I’m Introverted
Many people believe they’re either shy, not social, or introverted.
Whether a person is an introvert or not, it’s something that is preordained by nature and the DNA structure you were born with.
Some of the most social and best PUAs that have walked the earth were introverts, in fact, most of them were. Just because you were born an Introvert that doesn’t mean you can’t be social!
Decide today that you’re a beautiful social being and that you love to talk to people.
You might hate talking to people now and that’s understandable because you have little to no skill, but the more social dynamism you develop, the more you’ll notice yourself loving social interactions.
Today, Decided to believe – I am social, and I love talking to people.
#2 Change Your Habits
Speak More With People To Improve Your Social Skills
Decide to become more of a talkative person, and talk to everyone.
Talk more to friends and family, talk more at work or school, be louder, be the center of attention.
Change your life one step more than the time, start by talking more.
- Ask people more questions
- Ask people more for their opinion
- Make more statements
- Make bade jokes
- Be bolder, take more risk
At least if you live in the United States you live in a free country, Speak Your Mind. Besides helping you become more social and thus better with the ladies, it makes you more alpha. Winners in life a full of alpha qualities, the more you pose, the better your life will be.
Approach Strangers More Often To Improve Your Women Skills
Make it a habit to talk to one person in every building you enter, at least in most of them.
- Ask them a question
- Ask for advice on something
- Ask them for their opinion
When you make it a mission and a habit to do this consistently over the years, before you know it, you will have all these women and this social know-how that is just incredible. Little does this compound into the greatest things humans can ever have.
Be Friendly To Everyone
Make it a mission to always have a smile on your face
Be nice to everyone, even when they’re mean to you. If somebody who you’ll never meet again is mean to you, just let it go.
However, If it is someone you associate with regularly when they’re bad to you, do stand up for yourself. Don’t enable disgusting behavior toward you.
Besides that be friendly and playful with everyone you meet,
What you put into the universe you get back so, put out positivity.
Read And Learn Continuously About Women
Read books on:
- Picking up women
- Female phycology
- Evolutionary phycology
- Social Dynamics
- Comedy
- Fun things like palm reading and magic
- History
- Anything interesting to talk about
Continuously learn and read books that will help you and provide you with the knowledge on what to say, what not to say, what to do and not do.
Watch Videos That Teach You About Women
Look for channels on YouTube that teach you how to pick up women and develop your social skills. There are many great channels out there that teach great information, subscribe to them and learn.
Make it a goal to learn something new every day, by the end of the year you should have enough knowledge to do anything. Knowledge is power.
#3 Become 1% More Social
Practicing Your Game In Grocery Stores
Everyone must go grocery shopping at some point,
When you go grocery shopping, make it a mission to ask someone for advice on cooking, even if you are a master chef.
Doing this so can be more of a social practice, also asking people for their opinions makes them talk, talk, talk, people love giving their opinions on subjects.
You can also go beyond grocery shopping and concerns about more things, even get a number. The important thing is to practice.
Practicing Your Game In Clothing Stores
You can also do this in clothing stores,
Ask people men and women for opinions on things, Ask for direction, Ask for things, Ask Ask, and More Asking. Doing this regularly when shopping will eventually compound and build into a wonderful skill set.
Practicing Your Game In The Bus, Street, Or Train
Practicing Your Game At The Bus
If you happen to take the bus, first get a car!
Second, take this as an opportunity to practice, every once in a while, you might not always be able to practice and a lot of the people who take the bus tend to not be very friendly so analyze the situation and make an intelligent decision. \
Don’t speak with people who don’t wish to speak with you, have a belief deep down that you are the practice and embrace it, this is an inner game.
Practicing Your Game At The Train Or Train Station
On the train the same thing applies, try communicating with your fellow human beings.
Have a pre-planned joke, tell it to strangers, and then ask them for their opinion on it, laugh, have fun, and smile.
Practicing Your Game In The Street, Day Game
Day game is comprised of gaming on the street, shopping malls, stores, and so forth.
Whenever you are in the street, make it a mission to at least approach one person,
Try to approach people walking in your own direction, don’t try to approach people walking in your opposite direction, if you wish to approach a woman who’s walking in your opposite direction;
- Start walking in her direction
- Get slightly in front of her
- Look back at her
- Run an opener
- Look forward
- Continue speaking with great deliver
This is a little pickup strategy found in the book called The Mystery Method, it was way more information and strategies on pickup. Click Here to check it out.
The point is to get your practice in, no matter where you are or what you are doing.
Game At School Or Work
How To Get Girls At School
Whether it is high school or college, it is a blessing and an opportunity to be in school,
It’s a great opportunity to become great with women. Don’t waste your chance.
1. Start By Making Friends
Be friendly, be fun, If you are struggling to be funny, then read books on comedy and humor, and learn the principles of comedy and fun.
Most of my fellow classmates value fun, so became a fun person.
Check out the book called The NEW Comedy Bible, it’s a great book to help you become more fun and hone your funny bone, Click Here.
2. Build Your Status
When you are funny, People will like you, when people like you, you will be popular, and being popular means a high status.
Becoming Funny = Being Popular = Women
It’s all very primal, instinctual.
It’s no surprise, people at the end of the day are after value, and this is how you can offer people value.
3. Build A Preselected Reputation
Because you become a beacon of light for everyone to see, women will start to find you attractive. Use this to get women,
When one woman likes, they all like you, but at this point, the women are just starting to focus on the women that they like the most. This way you have a lower failure rate.
Even if you do get rejected it’s okay, thanks to your popularity, you will continue to attract women, however, this doesn’t mean that getting rejected can’t hurt you. Try your hardest to avoid rejection.
Now, the woman that might like the most might not be the one that you want, but it’s okay. Just having her be your girl will give you pre-selection.
Don’t tell people she’s your girl, don’t tell her she’s your girlfriend, keep her wandering, do date her and court her. If you happened to be in high school, take her to McDonald’s and buy from the dollar menu, it’s okay, you’re still in high school.
If you are in high school, try to get a part-time job, so you can have money to buy a car and date women. Keep people wandering, Keep her wandering, don’t tell anybody the truth.
Kiss her in front of classmates, try to find the biggest gossiper you can find, and kiss her in front of him or her, and observe as your popularity with the opposite sex grows.
Now, rinse and repeat, grab another woman and do the same, when you have a reputation like this, women will flock toward you like flies after honey.
How To Get Women At Work
Just like in school, Be friendly, social, and funny. Develop your humor by learning about it, reading books, and watching videos on the subject matter.
When it’s time to work, Work, but whenever you get a chance to socialize as well, take it. Be fun, be funny, be friendly.
Build your reputation as a fun guy.
1. Make One Or Two Friends
Make one or two friends at work, you don’t have to be very close but the importance of making at least one friend is that he will give you social proof.
Humans for the most part have external representational systems, which means that they are convinced by social proof.
Having this form of social proof will also attract women toward you, it will make you seem and appear more friendly to them, It’ll make them gullible.
2. Game The Women At Work
Once you have obtained social proof via friends or friends, the women will be drowned in the light, the fun.
Talk to the women, be friendly to them, execute some Kino, and get their contact info.
3. Invite The Women To Lunch After Work
After you’ve got the contact information invite them to lunch or dinner.
If they tell you no it’s okay, you can still hang out with them some other time, you already have the number.
If a woman you are trying to go out with is not replicating your attraction, let it be, be losable, you are the price. This attitude will attract even more women.
Move onto another one and try inviting her, don’t waste your time trying to get a woman who doesn’t like you, it will lower your value in the eyes of all the other women.
4. What If The Women Still Don’t Want Me?
If no woman wants to give you the time of day, keep building your status. Tell your friend about this woman you met. Even if you didn’t go out with her or anything, make it seem like you did. You don’t have to lie, say something along the lines of, “I had such a great time with her”, Again make sure the biggest gossiper around hears you.
Build a reputation of:
- Being Fun
- Being Funny
- Having Other Women
This reputation will aid you in getting women, in any environment to which you go and congregate with individuals every day, or just regularly.
#4 Go Out Gaming On The Weekends
This is the most important part of developing your game in general.
If you want to get in great physical shape, you have to hit the gym regularly, the same thing applies to games and having beautiful women in your life.
If you want beautiful women in your life, you must pay your dues to get them.
Plan Where You Intent To Go
This will start with a quick Google search, search for all of the nightclubs near you, and make a list of places.
Take the time to go to them in the daytime, see the place, and take mental notes. Once you decide on a couple of places, make a list
It’s best to vary your clubbing to different clubs per day. The best days to go out clubbing, out of the week are Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday.
However, if you live in a crowded city like Miami for example you’re in luck, you can go out any day of the week and practice. if this this you, make it a mission to go out as much as you can, every day if possible.
Now, if you happen to live in a place where there are no clubs, or the clubs are really far away, or too expensive for you, Start where you are, with what you have.
Go to the stores and practice, Take some classes and make friends, Start going to the gym and make gym friends. If you want more information on how to pick up women, make sure to read my blog post named; “13 Simple Steps to Pick Up Women Effectively” Click here to view this article.
Objective: Write a list of where you plan to go, It’s better if you pick a different club for a different day of the week. Thursday I go somewhere, Friday I go somewhere else, etc…
Going To The Venue
Calculate how long it takes to get to the venue and make sure to get there by 9:00 to 10:00 pm, some clubs are a little slower on less busy days, for example; if you live in a mid-size city, on Thursdays, at 9:00pm it might be virtually empty, and eventually by 11:00 to 12:00 pm get busier, if this is the case then, get there by 11 or 12 pm.
Plan how you intend to get there, whether it is by Taxi, Uber, your own car, or with friends. Dress well, black always looks great and stylish, black gloves, hat, shirt, pants, etc…
Also plan how you intend to get back home, and make sure everything is well planned, the better the plan, the easier the time you will have out gaming.
How To Act At The Club
Enter The Venue
When you enter the venue, have s smile on your face,
Opening As Soon As You Enter The Venue
A great rule amongst our community is to approach the first set to your right upon entering the venue, smile, say hi, and run your opener.
It takes 2 to 3 sets at the beginning of the night to become warmed up, once you’ve warmed up, you’re ready to go.
Pacing Your Practice At The Club
After you’ve opened, depending on your skill level, the set might last all the way from 1 minute to an hour. Your goal is to open 3 sets per hour.
Take your time, take it slow, There is a saying that says, “Slow is smooth, and smooth is fast“, this is very true when it comes to practicing your game.
Your goal is to spend as much time as possible in the venue, if you are a navies and can’t handle a bunch of social pressure yet, best to slow it down, approach 3 sets every hour, and enjoy the music.
The more your skill grows, the longer the sets will naturally become,
You also have the choice to approach bulk amounts of people. Still, I would only recommend this in the most target-rich environments, that is, the places with the hottest women in it, and invariably, the most people in general.
Be Nice To Everyone
Also, Be nice and friendly toward everyone, what you put out into the world, you’ll receive back
It’s important to understand that everyone at the clubs is scared, they have their guard up. All kinds of people go to the clubs.
So, if they are a little dismissive of you, understand that it’s not personal and they’re just trying to protect themselves from a potentially dangerous person approaching them.
Be Unreactive To Everyone
Be unreactive to the good and especially to the bad.
Being unreactive will protect you from getting hurt in the field, most men won’t be crazy enough to get physical with you but, there are some individuals out there who are ready to go to jail today. So don’t add to the stupidity.
On top of protecting you, being unreactive is a demonstration of value, it conveys that you have a higher status than whoever is interacting with you,
and makes women attractive to you when you underreact to them, it sub communicates that you are of higher value than her, and women want a man who is of higher value than them.
Speak With The Entire Group, Giving More Attention To The Males
When you open a group of people, focus on everybody in the group, especially the men.
Don’t show any indicators of interest to the women in the group and mostly focus on the men in the group. Somebody could be a boyfriend or a husband, etc…
Disarm the men first by befriending them, and asking, “How do you guys all know each other”, listen to their response, their answer will let you know if you are clear to precede or if you should gently eject the set.
How You Should Game When It’s Slow
When the venue is slow and very few people are present, slow it down. Wait until the venue gets more filled up so you can become more aggressive in your practice.
Don’t Approach People At The Bar
When it’s fast and busy, you can approach the bar area but it’s still best to not.
When it’s slow, do not approach people along the bar,
Warning: When it’s very slow, try not to approach many people, and especially do not approach people by the bar area. Sometimes the bartenders, especially when it’s slow, feel that you are scaring away their customers by approaching them. if they think this, you can end up making an enemy of the bartender, and if you are not careful, they can make moves that can potentially get you banned from the club, not fun. Don’t mess with their money. Slow and steady wins the race.
To Recap On What We Learned;
- Plan where you plan to go
- Go
- Enter with a smile
- Open as soon as you enter the venue
- Pace your practice
- Be nice to everyone
- Be Unreactive to everyone
- Speak with the entire group, giving more attention to the males
- How you should game when it’s slow
- Don’t approach people at the bar
#5 Set Goals For Yourself
What Do You Want?
Ask yourself, what do you want? How do you want your life to look like? What women do you want? How many? What do they look like?
If you truly want a great life do this right now:
Write A List of the things you most want in life, this should be personal to you.
Start now, write:
- A Russian blond
- A Nice Car
- 10,000 Dollars a month
Etcetera
Grab a piece of paper and write your list NOW, this should be totally personal to you. Only do this if you want your life to change, if you don’t then don’t.
Plan, Work It Backwards
Now that you’ve written your list, grab one item at a time and work backward. Let’s say that you want 10,000 dollars a month,
Grab a piece of paper, write your mine goal at the top of the page, and play backward. Ask if I want 10,000 dollars a month, what has to happen before that, and before that, for example:
10,000 dollars a month
- Scale my business to 10,000 dollars a month
- Create great and enough products that can lend me $10,000 a month
- Tayler everything necessary for the business to succeed
- Create the business
- Save the money necessary for the business, if needed
- Plan and decide on what business I want to make
- Learn how to start a business
- Work on my mindset
- Decide I want more out of life
And just like that, we got a great plan for a business, of course, this is really vague because I’m giving a general example of how to plan however, you can use this same strategy for anything you desire.
If you which to learn more about this to become a successful human being read the book called Unlimited Power By Anthony Robbins, Click Here To Check It Out.
Time To Execute
A good principle to remember is that emotions aid in execution, if you’re really struggling to execute you should work on your mindset.
- Read books on success, a positive mindset, and execution.
- Start listening to motivational speakers.
- Consume self-development material.
Doing those things will help you become more successful in life.
Now it’s time to decide what you want, plan where you plan to go out clubbing, and start building your skills. Good Luck.
Conclusion
If you want to become great with women, start at the root by changing your beliefs, change your paradigm- your habits, that push yourself, become a little more social, gradually increase your socialization, Most importantly, get a habit of going out on the weekends- go out clubbing, and finally set goals for yourself. If you don’t know where you are going, you’ll end up in the middle of nowhere.
The Books I Recommend For You To Get Started With, To Become More Successful With Women.
- For success in life, Unlimited Power By Anthony Robins
- For success with women, The Mystery Method By Eric Von Markovik
- To become fun and funnier, The NEW Comedy Bible By Judy Carter
